c.
2018 Cheryl Kelly
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(4-18)
My
youngest son recently got his temporary license this past week and I
took him driving through the old development that I grew up in. It
was a safe place to take a new driver; short streets, not a lot of
traffic and low speed limits. As we cruised the streets over and
over and I gave direction, I found myself flooded with memories from
my childhood. We passed houses where my best friends used to live,
my own house I grew up in, the corners where the green electrical
boxes used to stand that were a hang out for all the kids...it was
almost eerie. Things have changed so much and I was amazed at how
“small” everything now looked.
The
houses are small, the streets so close, almost claustrophobic;
strangers walking their dogs and driving past. It almost felt like a
dream. I could clearly remember like it was yesterday, who lived
where, and whose house we always gravitated towards. I was
reminiscing in my head the many happy years spent there and the
memories were just swirling. From playing freeze tag and TV tag in
bare feet in the front yard to riding my bike up and down the streets
stopping at each friend’s house hoping they could come out and
play, and of course making sure I got off my bike and walked it
across the street as required by my father. (That did work for some
time until I got smart enough to figure out that he was not out
patrolling the streets watching me…) And lets not forget meeting
everyone at the local pool when the summer sun and heat was brutal.
Summer
nights in a small town like Chardon were golden. It was a standard
rule in my house that if the weather was nice, you weren’t to be
seen inside, and that was fine by me. Days were filled with running
around all day long playing, never once wanting to stop and come home
to eat. Hating to hear the whistle from my father calling me home at
night, and never wanting to see those dreaded streetlights come on
that meant I better be in my own yard or there was trouble. And when
that next morning came, it seemed like an eternity waiting for my
friends to wake up so we could do it all over again. How I wish I
had that unlimited time and energy now...
Winter
was no different. I couldn’t wait to get stuffed into that one
piece snowsuit and bundled up hoping that my mother did not zip my
chin when she pulled that zipper up. Looking like Ralphie’s
brother in A Christmas Story, barely able to walk in my moon boots,
oh, but I could play! Sledding down from the railroad tracks, making
igloos, snowmen...just running around. And that feeling of getting
warm after finally coming in because you couldn’t feel your toes or
nose – there was nothing like it.
Springtime
in Chardon means one thing...Maple Festival time. We waited all year
for this. Our little town square gets turned into a carnival for a
brief period of time and when you are young, it means everything. We
lived within walking distance and we always had friends and family
coming over to walk up and enjoy the food and day at the festival.
Making the trek up the hill to the square was filled with
anticipation as to which ride you were going to get in line for
first, what food you would eat and what new treasures were to be
found under the big white tents. As I got older, being trusted to
walk from school up to the festival with friends was the big thing.
That wonderful feeling of independence and excitement of who you
would see and what cute boys you would run into. Innocent fun…
The
jerk of the car from brakes being hit too hard brought me back around
to reality. Looking at my son next to me I smiled and said, “easy
there pal”. I raised my sons right here in Chardon wanting that
same close, quiet, family atmosphere for them that I so enjoyed
growing up. Even though the times have really changed from when I
was young, it survives here. It’s a feeling you get when you drive
down the streets or look out your front window and see people living
simply, see small businesses flourishing and sense that community
vibe, that small town best.
Editor’s
Note: A great story here of growing up in small-town America. Passing
the torch onward to the next generation. In personal terms, I have
long wished for this kind of memory. But moving frequently during
childhood, from state to state, exploded that concept. More recently,
I used to refer to Chardon, Ohio as my ‘adopted home town’ until
divorce and career chaos also overwhelmed such notions of family and
self. I now feel more at home in Geneva or Saybrook. Though it is
likely that tomorrow will spin the Roulette Wheel once again. Still,
the tale here is sweet to savor. Cheers to you, my friend.