Sunday, January 12, 2025

Nothing To See Here - “Grandma’s Lullaby”


 


c. 2025 Rod Ice

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(1-25)

 

 

A frequent emotion that reverberates through the Icehouse is one of regret over having ever joined in the rowdy continuum of social media networks. These platforms, at first, seemed to offer a thrilling opportunity to connect with others, and share my written work. Yet upon further inspection, the technology has evoked demons that would have been better left in a dark pit of condemnation. Half-baked opinions and specious logic are allowed to fly freely. People behave with a brave sort of carelessness that would likely never occur, face-to-face. They yelp and squawk, and beat their chests with animalistic pride. And cheer over calamities for their foes. With each side quickly retreating into safe corners, as their supporters are deployed like flanks of armed combatants. It is a contest of echo chambers, bleating at each other in screeching tones of dissent.

 

Almost every day, I try to summon the courage that would let me delete all my memberships, and be done with this habit grounded in wasting time.

 

Yet there is a useful side to the pursuit. Beyond being able to post my manuscripts for a global audience, I also find that family members and friends, who I rarely encounter, do keep in touch. It is convenient and bolsters a sense of being connected.

 

So, on a recent day at my desk in the home office, I attempted to find some sort of balance. A midpoint in between the need to hush negative vibes, while discovering a different avenue of self-expression.

 

The result was something not new at all, but instead, germinated in the fertile loam of childhood lessons. Gifts from my maternal grandma, who was a poet and true believer in her family, community, and creator.

 

What followed was a stream of lyrics that might have been rendered on her humble, front porch outside of Parkersburg, West Virginia. Perhaps while strumming an acoustic guitar...

 

‘American Dream’

 

Well, I’ve lived for years on God’s green earth

And it’s a place I’d like to stay

But wild broadsides

And warring tribes

Take all the joy away

I believe what I once heard from a man

Who became our president

That the cause of national unity

Is a gift, heaven sent

There’s one land of the free

Where all may break their bread

Not a patchwork kingdom of separate sides

Colored blue or red

It’s one for all if you believe

And damn you if you don’t!

Face it friends, we’re all sailing along

In the same ol’ boat

 

That’s the dream

The American dream

 

Now I grew up with my grandma’s tales

Of hard times

And Great Depression lore

She raised a family on Appalachian dirt

Running a general store

I knew that marm was old and wise

I took her words into my heart

And even now, her Bible scriptures

Light a candle in the dark

So when I hear that faith in goodness

Has now gone out of style

It makes me think of a game being run

By sharp-toothed wolves who smile

I know better, I heard it first

That’s when I took the oath

A vessel that receives all mankind

Does not need to boast

 

That’s the dream

The American dream

 

I can’t think that our founders

Would want such rank division

With closed eyes

And secret allies

Taking up opposite positions

It makes no sense to fuss and fight

With members of the brood

Over slugs and snails and petty details

That stir the public mood

I might have thought differently

But that woman called me home

To sit in her kitchen, patiently

And read her hillbilly poems

That schooling made me smart enough

To survive beyond the yard

Where people lurk in shadows

And discerning truth is hard

 

That’s the dream

The American dream

 

Sisyphus rolled his stone uphill

And guilt made it come back down

That pompous ass

Got a master class

In terms of world renown

His acts of dread were condemned

By the gods Greece

Though once he bragged of conquest

Now, he knows no peace

And his kin in the modern day

Somehow think the rules have changed

But I know better from my grandma’s grace

Not a whit has been rearranged

The judgment of a thousand years

Falls like a hard rain

Spin it how you want

It all comes out the same

 

That’s the dream

The American dream

 

I’ll close this thought with a prayer

Just like we had ‘round the table

Everybody helps

Beyond themselves

According to who is able

It’s a great commission given

From the hand of a loving host

In the name of the Blessed Virgin

Father, Son and Holy Ghost

If you tread on a different trail of stones

Don’t think that’ll make us part

Under the same blue sky

We share kindred hearts

It is written, those who call ‘Lord, Lord!’

May only intend to deceive

When the tricksters cue up for anointment

It’s a scolding they will receive

 

That’s the dream

The American dream

 

A con man is no prophet

He thinks only of himself

A prince of darkness

Dripping success

With a jealous hoarding of wealth

He might have fooled a few

Yes, it stands to reason here

But not everyone will be convinced

His sainthood is in arrears

Once upon a time there was a season

Given for everything

A harvest of the fields

And then a reckoning

That hour will come and when it does

I’ll be on the side of love

Kinship, comity, and the rest

In a golden glow from above

 

That’s the dream

The American dream

 

I often think of Grandma McCray when riddles of a perplexing nature fill my head. Her gentle insight into all things kept me focused on righteous living. But it also taught me to honor others as equals. Regardless of their social status, or upbringing. She did not care about money or possessions, or the adulation of those seeking fame for themselves. Often, relatives in our brood described her as a godly woman. Yet I thought quietly that her way of living reflected the text found in Genesis, 1:26. Specifically, that humanity had been made in the image of a creator.

 

“Then God said, ‘Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness, so that they may rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky, over the livestock and all the wild animals, and over all the creatures that move along the ground.’” (NIV)

 

As a budding offshoot of the family bloodline, still naïve and searching for truth, I might have asked how to tell if a professed champion of goodness was genuine, or simply a fugazi in the flesh. And her answer might have been spoken in the plain language of a figure who held her homestead together with the durable affection of one who cared about her children, grandchildren, and generations beyond. More than any artificial representation of worth.

 

Or perhaps, sung in a Country Music lullaby.

 

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